A Christmas Angel
By
Barbara Foster
It was a
cold blustery day but Carolyn pulled the collar of her coat tighter around her
with one gloved hand while the other rang the bell incessantly. She never thought she would be standing on
the street ringing the bell to collect money but here she was and she was
grateful.
She knew
that her children were in a warm safe place and that they would have a hot
meal. It was part of her deal with the
organization that helped those who needed it.
She’d never
been a church goer but she did believe in a higher spirit and now she prayed
every day that something would come along to help her. When the cold hit, she had no choice but to
go inside the building with the big red sign and shield welcoming all who
entered. The Salvation Army was her
salvation for the moment.
She knew
she couldn’t stay there forever but perhaps until this cold spell was over and
then they could move on until she found a job and a place to live. They only had a few meager belongings, a change
of clothes and a hair brush, the children’s tooth brushes and a family photo.
After fourteen
years of marriage to the most wonderful man who loved and adored his family and
made sure they were well cared for, her world came to an end when she opened the
door one day to see a police officer and a chaplain. She remembered standing there staring at them
and holding onto the door to steady herself as she felt her legs would crumble.
Hearing the
news that her beloved husband had been killed in a car accident sent Carolyn
into a tale spin. She thanked them for
coming and closed the door, leaning against it.
The words echoed in her mind but she still couldn’t come to the realization
that James was gone and would not be coming home for dinner.
Her
thoughts raced towards what she would tell the children. She had to call his parents. What would she say to them? “Oh James, why you? Why did you have to die?” Suddenly the tears began to fall and she slid
down to sit on the floor and sobbed until her body couldn’t take any more.
Standing
up, she sniffled and wiped her face with her hand as she went to the bathroom
to splash water on her face. Looking
into the mirror, the reflection wasn’t her, the face all red and eyes swollen
until they were squinty lines. She felt
the tears coming again and straightened herself up. “Carolyn, stop it. You have to call and you have to be strong.”
The next
few days were like a haze. Carolyn went
through the motions of every day tasks but her mind was blank and she felt numb
all over. The family was gathered and
there were times when she wanted to scream and hoped she would wake up from the
nightmare. But it wasn’t a dream, it was
real. James was gone and now she had to
figure out how to take care of her children, Bethany who was ten and Jimmy who
was eight. She hadn’t worked since
before her marriage and now with the children, how would she be able to support
them.
James
parent’s told her they would help anyway they could but she knew that they
didn’t have the finances to support them.
Perhaps they could help with watching the children.
A lady
stopped to drop coins into the bucket and Carolyn smiled, “Thank you and God
bless you.” She had done the same thing
in the past, in her hurry to go inside a store or on the way out, she would
search and drop in a few coins or maybe a dollar or two if she had it and felt
generous. Now, she was ashamed of her
selfishness. She hadn’t thought about
the person ringing the bell or what it represented. It was an automatic reflex.
She
pondered the donors who had dropped money into the bucket and wondered if they
felt as she had. She hoped they never
had to go through the nightmare she did.
When she
entered the building that day, she was embarrassed. She had never had to ask strangers to help
her before, but Sister Jane had been friendly and told her, “Come sit
down. Tell me what we can do for you?”
It wasn’t
what she wanted, but what they could do for her. She had felt the sting of tears as they
welled up but she pull herself upright and told Sister Jane that she and her
children were homeless and that she didn’t have a job and she would like to
make sure the children got a meal.
“I can pay a little but not much,” she had told her.
Sister Jane
smiled, “We don’t expect pay.”
“But I
don’t want to impose and take away from anyone else,” Carolyn told her.
“If you
really want to help, there is a way.
Perhaps you could volunteer and help around here. That way you could stay here and the children
will be looked after.”
There was
no pay, but the prospect of a warm place and food for her and the children was
more than she had hoped for. “Yes, I
would be willing to help anyway I can. I
could help with the cooking or washing dishes or sweeping or….”
Sister Jane
smiled, “That won’t be necessary. Now,
we might call on you to help serve but we have someone who cooks and we have
plenty of dishwashers,” she said with a laugh.
“But there is one place we do need volunteers and I will understand if
you don’t want to do it. But we need
bell ringers.”
Carolyn
looked at her. “What do I have to
do?” She had seen the bell ringers all
around town and wondered if that is all they did, was stand there and ring
those bells.
“I’m sure
you are familiar with the bell ringers.
They stand near a store ringing the bell and collecting money. The money helps us with the food and bills
here so we can help those in need. It
isn’t exciting and can be cold and tiring but sometimes there are rewards for
our service to the Lord.”
Carolyn
looked at the children. “But what about
Bethany and Jimmy?”
“They can
stay here. We have things to occupy them
and perhaps they can help out with a few things.” She looked at the children.
So here she
was standing outside a discount store ringing the bell and trying to stave off
the cold. She had smiled and thanked
everyone and remembered to bless them.
Sister Jane told her that was the only thing she really had to do. For those who put in a large donation, she
made sure they knew how much it was appreciated as her voice was more
jubilant. She noticed several people
blessed her in return and she wondered why she had never acknowledged the bell
ringers.
Again she
felt ashamed of the way she had acted in the past. She had been selfish thinking only of herself
and her family. She hadn’t thought about
those who didn’t have nice warm homes or anything to eat. And the loneliness. She hadn’t ever thought about them being
lonely, but she did now as she experienced it.
True she had the children, but she was their mother, their
protector. She missed talking to James
or the family. She was alone with her
children.
She had
sold the home but after all the expenses; she only received a few hundred
dollars. James father asked about life
insurance, but she hadn’t found anything going through the papers in the
desk. They stayed with the Baker’s for
a few weeks, but she could tell it was a strain on them and so she told them,
“I’m going to find a job and we will get our own place.” Mother Baker as Carolyn called her said, “You
know you are welcome here for as long as you need.” But Carolyn didn’t think she was that
sincere. It was a gesture. After all she was their daughter-in-law and
the children were their grandchildren, but it still wasn’t home.
Pappa
Baker, James father, told her, “I can’t imagine James not having
insurance. Are you sure you checked
everywhere?”
She told
him she had and that even the car insurance company basically only paid off on
the car and she had given that money to the funeral home. There had been some money collected to help
the family from his co-workers and friends but again it went to the funeral
home so there wasn’t anything left for her and the children.
Carolyn’s
life had changed in that one instant she opened the door and heard those fatal
words and she was struggling to try to get some sort of life back for her and
the children, but everywhere she turned, it was a closed door.
She had a
job at a local fast food drive-in and they had a little two room apartment
above a store front. The children were
in school and it was tight but they were surviving. Then she lost her job and they had to move
out of the apartment. There was no where
to go. She couldn’t go back to the
Baker’s so they lived on the street.
It wasn’t
too bad during the warmer weather. The
hardest part was making sure the children had clean clothes to wear to
school. When summer came, they found a
spot near the river where they set up camp.
Jimmy was thrilled but Bethany
complained the whole time. Carolyn hated
leaving the campsite every day as she was afraid someone would take the few
things they had but she couldn’t leave the children alone as she searched for
work.
But there
were no jobs available and the little money she had was gone. They foraged through the dumpsters. The one behind the grocery was the best one
as they would find vegetables that were old but still good enough to cook into
a soup, and occasionally they were fortunate to get day old bread or
rolls. She wasn’t proud of what they
were doing, it was survival.
A familiar
face appeared and Carolyn pulled the coat tighter hoping she wouldn’t be
recognized. It was a friend she hadn’t
seen since the funeral. But Judy
recognized her. “Carolyn? Is that you?”
Carolyn
smiled, “Hello Judy. How are you?”
“I’m fine,
but what about you? What are you doing
here?” She looked at the woman she’d
known for years and was shocked to see the thinness in her face and the dark
circles under her eyes. Gone was the
perfect hairdo and makeup and the twinkling eyes. She could only see despair and wondered if
Carolyn was as needy as she looked.
“I’m
volunteering. You know they are always
looking for someone and I feel it is a good cause.” How could she tell her she was only doing it
in exchange for a warm place to sleep and food for her and the children?
“Gosh, I
haven’t seen you since….” She hesitated, “I mean, I wanted to call but you know
how things are.”
Carolyn
managed a slight laugh, “Yes I know.
With working and taking care of the family, it seems like the days just
fly by.”
“Right,”
said Judy. “Well, I hope you and the
children have a Merry Christmas.” She
walked into the store.
Carolyn
noticed she hadn’t put anything into the pot and wondered if she was like she
had been only last year. She looked at
her watch. She still had two hours to
go. She rang the bell and continued to
thank those who did donate, even if it was change. Every little bit would help.
Carolyn was
so cold. Her feet felt numb from the
coldness and her hands were cold even though she wore gloves. She shivered and kept moving around to keep
the circulation going. It wouldn’t be
much longer and someone would be here to relieve her. She was looking forward to returning to the
shelter to get warmed up and get a nice hot supper.
A tall
gentleman in a heavy parka which was pulled up so his face was mostly hidden
stepped up to the bucket. He took out
his wallet and Carolyn couldn’t help but notice the $50 bill he folded and put
in it.
“Thank you
sir and may God bless and keep you.”
Carolyn felt she needed to let him know just how grateful she really
was.
The man
started to walk off and turned back, “Sister, I hope you and your family have a
Merry Christmas and that the New Year will be good to you.”
Carolyn
looked at the man seeing only the eyes looking at her. She felt as if they were burning right
through her and a warm feeling flowed through her body. She didn’t feel the cold and for the first
time in a long time, she felt a peace come over her.
She started
to say something but he had turned and disappeared. She looked around but didn’t see him.
She noticed
a card lying on the ground and bent to pick it up. She looked at the card which only had a
number on it. On the back it said, “Call
this number and you will find what you have been looking for.”
She looked
at the card again. There was no name or
anything to identify it and she wondered where it had come from. She remembered the man and again looked for
him. He must have gone into the store so
she would watch for him and catch him when he came out.
But Carolyn
didn’t have a chance to see him again.
Her relief arrived and told her, “Go to the shelter and get warmed up.”
She didn’t
argue but would have liked to find the mysterious man who had so generously donated
and to ask if he had dropped the card.
Carolyn
spent the evening with the children as they told her about the stories Sister
Jane had read to them. She felt ashamed
that she hadn’t given her children the education of learning about religion or
going to church. They were so excited
about the Bible stories and Jimmy told her, “Mom, I knew it was Jesus birthday,
but man did they ever have to go through some bad times. Kind of like us right now.”
His words
hit Carolyn as if someone had knocked her down. Maybe it had been her pride or self pity,
but she realized she really hadn’t tried that hard to get a job and support the
children and herself. She’d been so
reliant on James and maybe she thought everyone would take them in and care for
them. She could see the foolishness of
her ways now and the vision of the strange man came into focus. She pulled the card from her pocket. Tomorrow she would call the number.
That night
as she slept, she dreamed. James had
appeared and told her, “Carolyn, I’m sorry I had to leave you and the children
but I’m here with you. I’ve been
watching over you and I know you can do it.
I miss you all so much but I can’t be there to protect or care for you,
so you need to call the number on the card.”
Carolyn woke up and looked around.
She sat up and looked again. She
laid back down and remembered the eyes she’d seen earlier. They were James’s eyes staring at her.
She told
herself it couldn’t be. James was gone
but she knew now that it was his eyes that had stared at her and gave her that
warm feeling all over. He’d told her in
the dream to call the number. Who was it
she was to call? Why did he appear as a
ghost? Carolyn tried to sleep but the
thoughts of what was happening kept going through her mind.
The next
morning, after their showers and breakfast, Carolyn asked Sister Jane if there
was a phone she could use. She told her,
“Someone gave me this card yesterday. I
have no idea of who it is.”
Sister Jane
looked at the card and the writing on the other side. “I would say an angel has given you a
gift. You may use the phone at my desk.”
Carolyn sat
down and carefully dialed the numbers. A
woman’s voice answered the phone. A-1
Insurance, this is Jill, how may I help you?”
Carolyn
wondered why the number would be to an insurance company. She said, “This is Carolyn Baker and I found
this card with a message written on it to call this number.”
“Mrs.
Baker, please hold on. Mr. Ingram will
want to talk with you.”
Carolyn
waited until a deep voice came on the line, “Mrs. Baker, this is David
Ingram. We have been looking for you.”
“Looking
for me? Why?” Carolyn hadn’t applied at an insurance agency
while job searching.
“It is in
regards to a policy on your husband, James Baker.”
“A policy
on my husband. I didn’t know he had any
insurance. We couldn’t find anything at
the house.”
“Would you
be able to come to my office today? I
think we need to sit down and I can go over everything with you.”
“Yes, I can
come.” She got the address and told
Sister Jane about the call.
Sister Jane
told her, “Leave the children here. I’m
sure it will be easier to discuss business without worrying about them.”
Carolyn
thanked her and headed for the address she’d written down. She walked in seeing a young woman at a
desk. “Hello, I’m Carolyn Baker and I
was supposed to come talk to Mr. Ingram.”
“Yes, I’m
Jill. I talked with you earlier. Wait just a minute and I’ll tell him you are
here.” She
returned and told Carolyn, “Go right in.”
Carolyn
went into an office just off the entry way.
A middle aged man sat behind the desk.
He looked up, “Mrs. Baker, have a seat.
I think I have something that will help you a great deal.”
Carolyn sat
down still not sure what he was going to tell her. They had looked all through the papers but
found no policy so she had no idea what this could be about. “I’m not sure you have the right Mrs.
Baker. I never found an insurance policy
after my husband’s death.”
“You are
Mrs. James Baker, who lives at 319 Hickory.”
“We used to
live there but I had to sell the house.”
She couldn’t tell him she was homeless now.
“That
explains it. We had sent a letter but it
was returned. Jill happened to see the
obituary of your husband and recognized the name. We searched the files and found the policy
your husband took out a few years ago. I
had a call from a Mr. Duane Baker who said he was your husband’s father but he
had no idea of where you were. He was
checking with all the agencies on a policy and I told him we did have one, but
I couldn’t give him any details but that I needed to speak with you.”
Carolyn
thought this must have happened after she left the Baker’s. “We stayed with my husband’s family for
awhile but then I got a job and we moved out.”
“Okay, that
explains it. He said he didn’t know
where you were living now.”
“What kind
of policy did my husband have?”
“It was a
whole life policy and you were the beneficiary.
That is why I couldn’t give out any information to anyone but you. How did you find us?”
Carolyn was
at a loss. “It is a strange story, but
someone gave me a card with this number and said I was to call.”
David
looked at her and smiled, “Well, I don’t know who it was but I’m glad they
found you.”
Carolyn
felt that warm feeling again as a vision of the hooded man stood in front of
her with those piercing eyes. How could
she tell him that she had been visited by the ghost of her dead husband? It was ridiculous and she really didn’t
believe it but then again there was no explanation.
When
Carolyn walked out of the insurance office, she felt like she needed to pinch
herself. Never had she dreamed that
anything would make things right again, but Mr. Ingram had given her a
check. She looked at the check. James had a $50,000 life insurance policy but
was double indemnity if his death was by accident, so she had $100,000.
Was she
still dreaming? Was it James who had
come by yesterday and dropped the card for her to find? This couldn’t be real. She began walking towards the shelter. She knew once she was there, she would wake
up and realize this was all a dream.
She was
already thinking of getting new clothes for the children and herself and even
some Christmas gifts. She had a lighter
step until she neared the shelter. She
stopped and looked at the building seeing the men and women who were going
inside or coming out. She felt the check
in her pocket and knew that she couldn’t just go shopping.
The money
was for a new start for the children and herself. It would get them a place to live and the
things they needed until she could get a job and she knew she could now. She went inside seeing the children
listening to Sister Jane.
Watching
them, she felt a hand on her shoulder but when she turned there was no one
there. The warm feeling came over her again
and she knew James was there. He would
always be there to watch over them, but there was something Carolyn had to do
for herself. Seeing the look on Bethany
and Jimmy’s faces, she knew that she had been given a gift and the angel who
had appeared to her and given her the money they would need was small in what
she felt right now.
She closed
her eyes and prayed, thanking God for what he had done, taking her family from
the depths of despair to starting a new life.
One in which he would be a part of.
She opened her eyes to look at the cross on the wall with the depiction
of Jesus. He had given his son so that
she could be free and live, just as he had taken James; he had also given her
the hope she needed to continue.
Later as
she talked to Sister Jane expressing her feelings she didn’t feel shame but it
was a feeling of love and warmth. “I
want to repay you for what you have given us.
We can get our own place now and I know I’ll find a job.”
Sister Jane
patted her hand, “Carolyn, you have already repaid us. You have come to understand God’s love and
why we celebrate this time of year. Just
keep God in your heart and he will never leave you.”
Every year
at Christmas, Carolyn makes time to volunteer to ring the bell. To collect the funds needed to help those who
are without. Never again did she look
upon anyone feeling pity or disdain, but feeling their despair and knowing that
one day their Christmas angel would appear to help them find their way back.
The faith
she had pushed aside, feeling comfortable with her home and family was returned
after she faced the lowest point in her life.
When she found the shelter, it was her last hope and now she knows that
she was guided there by a higher being and her faith has been restored. Her life has changed. She doesn’t walk by the bell ringer now
without dropping in change or a dollar or two or more if she has it. She never knows when she might be the
Christmas angel for another person just as she had been visited by her
Christmas angel.
Bethany and
Jimmy learned as well, that Christmas is a time for giving, but not all gifts
are in brightly wrapped packages and each year they visit the shelter to read
to the other children or sweep or whatever they can do. They are giving a gift of love which is more
precious than a gift of merchandise.
May we all
have a Christmas angel to remind us of this wonderful holiday, the birth of
Jesus and the love that God gives to us each day.
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